How to Get Her Back

If your girl just broke up with you, there’s a good chance that you’re pretty sad right now.  There’s no shame in admitting that.  This is especially true if she’s a high-quality woman.  You probably exerted a lot of effort in landing her and since she’s a high-quality woman, there’s a good chance that you’re pretty happy with the relationship.  But now that she’s gone, your primary source of happiness is gone as well.  So if you want to be happy again, you have to know how to get her back.

Don’t be too available

This is a rookie mistake and it’s hard to blame you for committing this mistake.  A lot of men make this mistake of being too available.  They take the suggestion, fighting for her, too literally.  They text their ex every minute and they call every hour if they don’t get a response.  They show up unattended in their ex’s office with flowers in hand, thinking that this act of sweetness is enough to be taken back.  Well, that’s where you’re wrong.

Stop being a loser

If you bug her to no end, you’re practically begging her to take you back.  This just proves the fact that you’re a loser.  She may not say it but there’s a good chance that she thinks that you’re a loser so she broke up with you.  Begging her just cements that fact and you wouldn’t want that.  So stop being a loser!

Start avoiding her

A little change in your activities will go a long way.  If you both go to the same gym, transfer to a different gym.  If you work in the same building, go to the next building for lunch to avoid bumping into her.  Whatever you do, don’t contact her via text or email.  Oh, and don’t post sweet nothings on her Facebook wall.  Continue living your life without her.

Spark her curiosity

If you suddenly become unavailable, this will spark her curiosity.  She’ll start to wonder if there’s something wrong with you.  In addition to being curious, she will also start to worry.  Due to curiosity and concern, she will be the one to contact you.

Once she does, she’ll see that you’re doing just fine.  She might even discover that you’re already dating someone.  This will take her by surprise.  Remember, she thinks that you’re a loser.  So how can you move on that quickly and start dating again?  She’ll think that maybe she did a mistake in letting you go.  She’ll think that there’s something wrong with her, not you.  By now, you’re ready to press her emotional hot buttons.  She won’t be ready to take you back.  She will be the one to ask you to take her back.

Additional tips

Now that you’re together again, it’s up to you to make sure that it won’t happen again.  You should check out different dating advice for men.  She’ll notice the improvements and she’ll hate herself for not noticing before.  Now, you’re in control of the relationship.